Most dads love their children – especially those who follow in their footsteps. My son Jake embodies this the most of my three boys.
So, when he took a huge step up in competition this summer and began playing with the high school baseball team just a month after turning 14, I was excited. When he struggled for the first time in his young career, I was concerned. When he became visably frustrated and some of his enjoyment for the game waned, I became his counselor.
We’ve all been there at one time or another.
Despite our best efforts, seemingly all goes against us. Sometimes we work harder, sometimes we quit. Each time, it seems like we’ll never reach our desired objective.
So, just as I would with anyone else, I provided Jake with a best life practice that I’ll share with you today.
“The key to success is often simplifying our lives.”
We can’t always outwork a problem. Adding more resources (our time, energy, finances) isn’t always the quickest way to reach our objective.
Sometimes, less really is more.
So, slow down. Clear your mind. Breathe deeply several times. Take a moment to relax.
And when you’re done, break down the issue into its most basic parts. In essence, return to the actions that have proven successful in the past.
For Jake, it was a matter of remembering to keep his head down, take a short step, generate power through a quick swing and see the ball hit the bat.
For you, it’ll be something just as basic and just as successful. Just as it’s been countless times in the past. In the process, you’ll be amazed at how quickly your frustration will subside and progress will be made – even if it’s only minor at first.
From there, just like Jake – who singled his past at-bat – you’ll be in a much better place mentally and physically to reach your goal.
Make today better than yesterday, but not as great as tomorrow!
Chris Errington is a husband, dad, writer, seeker of truth and fervent believer in the power of utilizing best practices to live a more balanced and enjoyable life. When I’m not rooting for the Steelers and West Virginia University or fretting over the grass in the front/back yards, I’m working my plan to live my ultimate goal – Writing remotely from the deck of a 38-foot sloop while sailing throughout the Caribbean. Getting my wife to agree is another matter entirely.
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